A gregarious barman greets regulars while hairy-chested musclemen appear on a small screen next to an ice bucket. Many leather bars have demos for various kinky sex acts. DO be aware what happens in play areas, cruise hallways, and dark backrooms. Maybe three times. Thousands of leathermen congregated in multiple micro scenes across London, while thousands more revelled at club nights and events further afield. Prejudice and discrimination are not welcome, and we should know better.
This is the fine line between consensual sex play and assault.
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The only circumstance where this rule gets challenged is in a lights-out space made for anonymous play — spaces which exist in some leather bars, gay sex clubs, gay bathhouses, and so on.